#37 😱 “I don’t like networking. It feels fake.”

When I dig deeper into why some UXers don't like networking, one idea comes up often: Networking might seem like it goes against earning opportunities based on merit.

😤 “I want to win opportunities because of my skills, not because I know people.”

As a career coach in tech, I understand the challenges tech professionals face. Networking is a top challenge for many. Let’s face it: Mingling with other professionals isn't always fun for everyone.

I'm here to offer some questions on that:

1️⃣ What if understanding other people—their cares and struggles, both professional and personal—could help you do your job better?

At the end of the day, your job fits into a larger effort. You can only communicate its value if you understand the language others speak and what they care about.

2️⃣ What if networking was about cultivating genuine interest in others and their goals, rather than just getting a job, referral, or client?

Be easy on yourself and others. Instead of pushing a fixed agenda, allow yourself to be surprised by what you hear.

What are your thoughts? Let me know, I’m curious!

P.S. Here’s a picture from King’s headquarters in Barcelona with two amazing networkers I met in the city. Meet Oliver Graff and Paloma Allende through UX Salon Barcelona. They create cozy events and build a community for UX folks.

P.S. Here’s a picture from King's headquarters in Barcelona with two amazing networkers I’ve met in the city. Meet Oliver Graff and Paloma Allende through UX Salon Barcelona. They create cozy events and build a community for UX folks.

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